Margaret Cheasebro

We recently had quite a bit of rain where I live in Farmington, New Mexico. In our area, which receives eight inches or less of rain each year, half an inch on one day is quite a lot. As a result, we have been seeing more rainbows than usual. They are quite beautiful.

One of my neighbors saw me pulling weeds in my yard and walked over to tell me about a rainbow in our neighborhood. I looked up, and there it was arched over his house. His wife stood near their driveway, a smile on her face as she looked at the rainbow. Only minutes after they pointed it out to me, it faded away. I felt fortunate to have seen it, something I would have missed if they hadn't told me about it. My eyes were focused on the ground to spot weeds, so what was going on in the sky had not been in my field of vision.

Another day, there was a brilliant rainbow in a different part of town. I was able to capture it with my camera as it seemed to shoot out of a group of trees on a tree-lined street.

Several years ago, a friend of mine, Marion Blaney, now deceased, wrote a self-published book called Across the Rainbow Bridge: A Travel Guide for Our Spiritual Journey. On the title page, she hand wrote the message, "May you always walk among rainbows!"

There is something so beautiful and colorful about rainbows that when I see them, they lift my spirits. I often see them near trees. Occasionally I spot a double rainbow, which is doubly beautiful. One of the rainbows is usually a little fainter in color than the other, but together they form twin arcs that make me stop everything I'm doing to take in their beauty.

In that state of focusing on the rainbow's beauty, I forget everything else. I am so absorbed in enjoying the rainbow that nothing else enters my mind. Letting go, even for a few seconds, of all the worries, concerns and frustrations helps to bring peace of mind.

May you find rainbows in your life just when you need them.

When we are faced with huge challenges, life may seem overwhelming. They feel like insurmountable obstacles: moving away from home, losing a friend or loved one, selling a house and moving into a new one, being fired, adjusting to a new job, struggling through an illness. The list goes on and on.

What I've noticed about such challenges is that each one takes monumental effort on my part. I have to dig deep inside myself and find new ways to cope, or I must polish long-unused skills to survive. When it's all done, I'm exhausted.

No matter what the difficulty, once we make it through and give ourselves time to rest and recover, we wonder how we managed to survive. We remember that neighbors, friends, or even strangers lent a hand at particularly grueling moments. We used tools to help us survive the next minute, hour, or day. We might have learned to use those tools from earlier challenges. We might have discovered how to use them out of sheer necessity and the overwhelming urge to survive. No matter how those tools developed, they are in our toolbox now, and they can be refined for all kinds of other tasks. They help us to navigate life a little more easily.

I thought about that when I was walking on a pathway beside the Animas River in Berg Park. It's a beautiful area of trails, brick walkways and benches that runs through Farmington, New Mexico, the city where I live.

I came upon a cemented area protecting two large metal culverts that let water flow under a walkway and into the Animas River. Nothing grows on that cemented area – except for one very determined little cottonwood tree. It had found a crack in the cement big enough for its roots to reach nutrient-rich soil.

What courage it must have taken for that tree to find a way to flourish! There are much friendlier areas where it could have rooted. Some of those places are just a few feet away, but for some reason it chose that spot.

When I look at the picture I took of that young tree, it reminds me that I too can make it through tough times. Life eventually will get easier, more relaxed, even fun. If I make a list of all the difficulties I have faced in one column and all the good times I've experienced in another column, there are many more good times than difficulties. Thank goodness!

The city of Farmington, New Mexico, has a wonderful herb garden at the Riverside Nature Center. There are lots of herbs, grasses and trees growing there, and all are identified with special plaques. Other cities may have similar resources as well. If you live somewhere else, ask the local Chamber of Commerce or visitors center if your city has something like it.

If you live in or near Farmington and want a peaceful, enjoyable and educational place to take family, friends or visitors, the Riverside Nature Center is a great place to go. And it's free! Turn off Browning Parkway into the municipal complex that contains some city offices, the regional animal shelter and the Riverside Nature Center. Follow the signs to a parking lot near the nature center. Don't be surprised if you see deer or chickens walking near the trail.

At the center, you can ask for a handout of all the herbs growing in the herb garden. There's a xeriscape garden nearby too. The handout even has recipes for making an herb blend and one that combines tomatoes with a variety of herbs. There's a recipe for lavender-lemon cookies and another one for apricot lavender jam. You will see some different kinds of lavender growing in the herb garden.

Plan to spend an hour or more walking among the herbs, grasses and trees that grow in the herb garden. There is a lot to see! Well-marked trails take you on pathways through the garden. If you get tired, there are tables and benches not far away where you can rest.

When some friends and I recently toured the herb garden, we felt so relaxed. Being near all that natural beauty has a way of calming you.

A visit to the herb garden gets even better if you add a visit to the nature center itself. It's in a building with lots of exhibits and even has some interactive things to do. You can select some mementoes of your trip at the gift shop. Sometimes you'll find used books at a very cheap price there. For more information, call the center at 505-599-1422.

If you want to stay a little longer, head over to the nearby regional animal shelter. Ask if you can take one of the dogs for a walk. The shelter relies on volunteers to help them walk the dogs waiting for someone to adopt them. The animal shelter is not far from the Animas River, where there are wonderful walkways built along the river. They meander near the water for a few miles through town.

If you're looking for something to do this month when the weather is still comfortably cool, try the nature center and its surroundings. It's an activity that your whole family can enjoy together.